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Sunday, 28 July 2013

Victims Can Learn From Child Abuse Survivor Stories

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By Maryanne Goff


The child abuse survivor stories can be found on the internet, in magazines and on books. These are stories that contain very important information that can help the children and parents learn more things. They have been made available so that many people are able to access them and get the information in it.

Some parents are normally very bitter that makes their children be afraid to tell them in case of any problem like rape or assault. It is advisable to the parents to take their time and talk to their children and not being harsh with them at all times. This one is something that can really help a family. Being close to children can help you learn of tiny problems they are involved in.

When this kind of thing happens it will give them a mental torture for a very long period of time. This is because the victim will always be reflecting on what happened to her in the past. Such a thing makes them to feel very low and so they will not feel very happy. It is important to try and establish and organization that will help in counseling and teaching such victims.

It is important that children of the opposite sex know the sex knowledge and this is a lesson that the parents should teach them. They should know that a person who is of the opposite sex should not be allowed to touch the private parts of her body or even undress her. In case of that she should scream for help and when threatened should report this to the closest person so that she is helped.

Some other thing that guardians or parents should do is discourage the girls from dressing provocatively. This is the excuse that these rapists use that they were actually tempted because of the manner that the victim dressed in. So try at least to look at the code of dressing for your daughter. Do not give them the chance to do it.

There are some children who have died from cases like this one. The reason could be because the case was not looked at and there was no one who could stand for them. There was simply no one to assist them during that situation. The memories usually stay on their minds for some time and can make them to be depressed.

In a case like molesting from parent or uncle this still should be reported to court. You should not look at it as a light matter. The offender should serve that sentence so that next time one want to do it, he should think twice. There should be no pardoning for such a case.

There are very many teachings that one can get when you read the child abuse survivor stories. Parents can use these to teach their children to be fee with them to talk out a problem so that they are helped in time. The should be taken to a doctor to examine them in case of any problem. A counselor can also help them to overcome that difficult situation.




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